Kinky women in Louisville

153 Kinky women in Louisville

I’m a lady with a sailor’s vocabulary, a submissive with her own mind, and a grown woman who can take care of herself but has given that privilege to my Sir.

I am a female submissive that would love to find someone to submit to. I would like to find someone that is caring but can also be strict when needed. I haven't gotten to explore much but open to most things. I like being tied up choked spanked.

I am looking to socialize and learn. I am in a committed relationship for over 13 years. Together we have explored the community and at times expand our connection through socializing. **Desires and Fantasies** Desires domination not a controlling jerkwad?

I'm not on the market for anything atm except some friends (regardless of gender) & good conversation. I'm in the process of divorcing, starting over & figuring out my wants & needs. That being said, do NOT slide into my inbox thinking/claiming you have any idea on what I want or need. You don't know me. I would say I'm a novice bratty submissive who has had some light experience with kinky fuckery, but that's not the same as a submissive. Just because I'm inexperienced doesn't mean you can jump into my inbox using honorifics. My pictures are set to private for a reason. I will not grant every Tom, Dick & Harry access to them just because you ask (regardless of your actual nomenclature) And if you're looking for a 3rd, please don't inbox me.... Unless your Ragnar & Lagertha ??

Mature woman relatively new to Louisville looking for fun and adventure. HAVE SEASON PASS TO KENTUCKY KINGDOM find me at the Beach this summer! I’m looking for mature, adventurous, man with no strings. Must like dogs. Not your average GenX. Be prepared for anything.

im trans if that’s a problem move to the next I I am fun sized pick me up and play with me like a doll I love being used by daddy **Desires and Fantasies** I’m a spoiled brat who needs daddy to shower me with attention and love and cuddles and also do naughty stuff to me im trans if that’s a problem with you don’t write me

Please actually read my entire profile, I will read yours. It's for your benefit as much as mine. If you message me, please speak to me as a regular person just as you would in any everyday vanilla social situation. Don't use honorifics, pet names, terms of endearment or other overly familiar terms. I'm not _your_ Dominant, nor am I your babe, sugar, hun, beautiful or other such thing. Miss or Ma'am are acceptable, if you insist, though I tend to find overuse irritating. If you use the canned messages this site offers as "ice breakers" or anything that sounds like a canned copy/paste intro message, it is almost guaranteed to be ignored. # Please don't send a request for my hidden gallery, it will be ignored. Use your grown up words and ask but not before building a rapport, exchanging a handful of messages doesn't count. If I wanted to make them available to random requests, they wouldn't be hidden. # Friend requests sent without discussion beforehand will be denied. - Greyromantic - Gender non-conforming - Demisexual/Noetisexual - Polysexual /pansexual - Non-monogamist, kitchen table poly friendly, somewhat of a relationship anarchist - Neurodivergent - AuDHD - Not nice but kind If you don't know what those terms mean, Google them. I will, of course, discuss specifics. Much to my disappointment, I'm least likely to be sexually attracted to cis women. Some level of authentic friendship is necessary before the possibility of anything more... demisexual not to be confused with asexual. It should go without saying that I don't do hookups and ONS. The "friendzone" is not a thing that exists, if you believe it is I'm not for you. This doesn't mean I can't and don't do "casual" it just means that my version of casual might look different from what some are used to. I'm looking to connect with people who are kind, generous, emotionally intelligent, self aware, empathetic, and feel that growth and learning should never end. I value honesty, transparency, open and direct communication. Authenticity is vital. I'm very much people first, kink and BDSM second. I don't have a list of kinky criteria I'm trying to find a match for, yes I have a somewhat priorized grouping of needs, wants and interests but ultimately if there's potential for anything beyond friendship I prefer things to develop somewhat organically. Due to this, what a relationship or dynamic looks like for me will often vary greatly from one person to the next. Just because I'm into something doesn't make it a requirement. **Please don't make assumptions, ask questions instead. I'm interested in and open to many different types of relationships, dynamics and play partners.** Are you able to set aside the concepts of roles, labels and any preconcieved ideas you might have and instead focus on what might be possible between you and a specific individual? Do you enjoy, or are you at least open to exploration and experimentation outside of your immediate comfort zones? The more I like someone for who they are as a person and friend, the more likely I'll be willing or even _want_ to explore and experiment with things they're into or curious about. Even if whatever it is isn't of primary interest to me. I've already discovered things I've turned out to be very much into this way, when previously I was neutral or didn't really "get" the appeal. You might just figure out something you were previously apprehensive about or hadn't given a second thought to before is also something you really enjoy. D/s isn't an inherent part of kink for me. Dominance and submission is about the overall energy of a relationship or dynamic and separate from what people might do with and to one another. This means the exact same actions and activities can occur and be enjoyed in many different ways, both with D/s and without. # Final things of note... - Don't get all in your feelings about how long I take to respond, even if you see that I've read your message and have logged on and haven't yet responded. It doesn't always mean that I'm not going to. I don't play the stupid games of making people wait just to toy with them. It's usually a time or mental energy thing or I've logged on to catch up with the forums or friends or something like that. - Recent and regular fully comprehensive STI/STD testing is a requirement. This is non-negotiable. - This isn't Fetlife, the Fet app is part of fetish .com and a lot of people end up here when they went looking for "fet" or fetlife when they heard about it somewhere else. They're totally different sites, fetlife is a dot com not an app. (I hope this was helpful)

I’m 30 and married. I really want to sell my pictures and dirty talk. it’s husband approved but god does it make me feel so dirty and sexy.

I’m married. My wife and I date separately, please be respectful of that. I’m looking for fun conversation and chemistry that hopefully leads to more. I’m an open book but you’ve got to be willing to put forth a little effort.

I'm a fun loving college student! While school will always come first, I am looking for someone to help me destress and hopefully I can do the same for you ? Some of my kinks include choking, slapping, ropes/being restrained, and servicing you Some things I have interested in include forced orgasm/orgasm denial, knifeplay, wax play

New to parts of the lifestyle and just looking to see what’s out there.

looking for friends, maybe a serious relationship. I know what i like and love in this lifestyle. im an open book.

I’m getting too old to be so stressed. thought maybe exploring some links here could be a great start to a better life. throw me some kinks and we can see what happens…

I just want a girlfriend to cuddle & go on adventures with who also loves good food I do have a boyfriend, so possibly looking for someone to share our love with depending on the connection, but if that's not your thing that's ok too. I'm good with just keeping you all to myself ?

Submissive slave looking for a dominant I’m 23 looking for a dom who can handle my bratty side My kinks are: Bondage, Spanking Choking Hair pulling Degradation Controlling me Nipple play Orgasm control and denial NO MEN OVER 33 PLEASE IF I DONT ANSWER YOUR MESSAGE YOUR NOT WHAT IM LOOKING FOR SO DONT BLOW UP MY MESSAGES

Festivals ? Concerts ? Camping ? Boating ? Game Nights ??? Coffee ☕️ 420 friendly ?? Full on Brat and just realized it… Teach me Daddy ?? Wanna know anything else just ask… If you message: Want to fuck odds are I won’t respond. I’m a diamond in the rough can you see it?

NOT CURRENTLY LOOKING, WILL BE LOGGED OUT UNTILL I START LOOKING AGAIN. ALL NEW MESSAGES WILL GO UNANSWERED. Plus sized girl trying to explore this lifestyle more. Not looking to exchange pics, more so looking for irl connections. Open to being fwb, 3rd/relationship addition, or LTR if the vibes are right. I'm an open book so ask away

looking for a man who can be considered a safe space i know what i like but haven’t really had a chance to experience

looking for a domme to worship! probably nothing super serious or long term, but I wanna have some fun! ?

I'm married, I play alone or with my hubs. I'm a Masochist who often occupies a little's headspace, but I'm also a little bit of a switch. I'm very submissive sexually... but controlling in other aspects of my life. Being able to let go and give over control to another is an amazing turn-on for me. So, long story short, I'm looking for a Sadist who has a thing for masochists with daddy issues...

looking to experience more of the lifestyle. don't bother me if you're not going to reply after a couple responses. red flags get ghosted and blocked.

Hi I'm Debbie! Looking for friends to have fun with & a partner with common interests. I like to read, write, and game. I have 2 cats thst share the same braincell. I'm an open book so ask me anything.

Lover of all things BDSM , kink list ? Ask me FYI I am plus size , if that's not for you then swipe left. Lover of all things anime and video gaming . Horror film fanatic / binger and scare actor enjoyer Tattoos / beards and ear gauges are my weakness Looking for more book friends / people with similar interests I don't have time for games state what you want clearly and be honest we grown out here . If you want to get to know me hit my matches / messages . ?️ ?

i am a 36 year old stay at home mom with three boys Taurus/star wars baby/derby baby I am a brat looking for someone who can help my husband train me. I've been a closet brat for a decade and I'm ready to be who I am. I'm not looking for random hookups. I'm not looking for a relationship. just friends. now if I was to find a cute plaything to share with my hubby then yes that might happen. but I'm possessive over him. so only someone I can trust and shit. 420 friendly non drinker I'm a nerd I love playing world of Warcraft and I love Harry Potter. I love DND but have never played. I keep a set of DND dice on me at all times lol

I'm not on the market for anything atm except some friends (regardless of gender) & good conversation. I'm in the process of divorcing, starting over & figuring out my wants & needs. That being said, do NOT slide into my inbox thinking/claiming you have any idea on what I want or need. You don't know me. I would say I'm a novice bratty submissive who has had some light experience with kinky fuckery, but that's not the same as a submissive. Just because I'm inexperienced doesn't mean you can jump into my inbox using honorifics. My pictures are set to private for a reason. I will not grant every Tom, Dick & Harry access to them just because you ask (regardless of your actual nomenclature) And if you're looking for a 3rd, please don't inbox me.... Unless your Ragnar & Lagertha ??

I’m a lady with a sailor’s vocabulary, a submissive with her own mind, and a grown woman who can take care of herself but has given that privilege to my Sir.

I am looking to socialize and learn. I am in a committed relationship for over 13 years. Together we have explored the community and at times expand our connection through socializing. **Desires and Fantasies** Desires domination not a controlling jerkwad?

I am a female submissive that would love to find someone to submit to. I would like to find someone that is caring but can also be strict when needed. I haven't gotten to explore much but open to most things. I like being tied up choked spanked.

I’m 30 and married. I really want to sell my pictures and dirty talk. it’s husband approved but god does it make me feel so dirty and sexy.

I'm a fun loving college student! While school will always come first, I am looking for someone to help me destress and hopefully I can do the same for you ? Some of my kinks include choking, slapping, ropes/being restrained, and servicing you Some things I have interested in include forced orgasm/orgasm denial, knifeplay, wax play

I'm married, I play alone or with my hubs. I'm a Masochist who often occupies a little's headspace, but I'm also a little bit of a switch. I'm very submissive sexually... but controlling in other aspects of my life. Being able to let go and give over control to another is an amazing turn-on for me. So, long story short, I'm looking for a Sadist who has a thing for masochists with daddy issues...

I am a submissive (mostly), Christian girl. I prefer women, due to past trauma resulting in a fear of men. but I'm open to talking to anyone. just know that if you're a man and you lead with sexual talk, you will get a "no thanks" message from me. also, I have my own Dominant who I am a service submissive to. that's a nonsexual dynamic, but it is an important relationship to me. so prospective partners need to be aware of that.

Lover of all things BDSM , kink list ? Ask me FYI I am plus size , if that's not for you then swipe left. Lover of all things anime and video gaming . Horror film fanatic / binger and scare actor enjoyer Tattoos / beards and ear gauges are my weakness Looking for more book friends / people with similar interests I don't have time for games state what you want clearly and be honest we grown out here . If you want to get to know me hit my matches / messages . ?️ ?

looking for a man who can be considered a safe space i know what i like but haven’t really had a chance to experience

Hi! I'm a 32 year old poly switch! I have a submissive female who I've owned for a very long time. 10+ years. She lives with me and we did have children together. As for my submissive side, it's been away for ALONG time due to severe abuse with a man 10+ years ago. I haven't been with a man since. I'm submissive with strong, Daddy-type Dominants.

Mature woman relatively new to Louisville looking for fun and adventure. HAVE SEASON PASS TO KENTUCKY KINGDOM find me at the Beach this summer! I’m looking for mature, adventurous, man with no strings. Must like dogs. Not your average GenX. Be prepared for anything.

I’m getting too old to be so stressed. thought maybe exploring some links here could be a great start to a better life. throw me some kinks and we can see what happens…

looking for friends, maybe a serious relationship. I know what i like and love in this lifestyle. im an open book.

I'm a 43 yo top heavy switch. I like helping others find who they are and be comfortable with whatever kink they are pulled toward.

Bratty princess coming your way! Spicey and Loyal! Driven, workaholic, who gets paid to be in charge every day seeking a rescue. Seeking a man who will take control and do everything for me. I take pride in caring for my body in all aspects being physically, mentally, and spirituality awakened. It's all about the Dymanic Balance! Let's take a journey together and seek refuge in one another. All your secrets are safe with me!

I started a new adventure this year, hopefully to have some fun doing it. I am a 41 bi female, I am a book nerd, outdoors and sport person. I am into all types of stuff it's best to ask, cause you could be shocked.

I'm 50 looking for a fuck buddy. NO relationship, no strings, just sex. I want a man who knows a woman's body. I don't want love making, I want to fuck. I don't hook up with anyone younger than 48 so don't ask if i date younger guys, I break younger guys.

Festivals ? Concerts ? Camping ? Boating ? Game Nights ??? Coffee ☕️ 420 friendly ?? Full on Brat and just realized it… Teach me Daddy ?? Wanna know anything else just ask… If you message: Want to fuck odds are I won’t respond. I’m a diamond in the rough can you see it?

looking for a domme to worship! probably nothing super serious or long term, but I wanna have some fun! ?

PSA!!! I AM PLUS SIZED! dont let these filters fool you, I have a foopa a some jelly rolls lol if that’s not your style let me save you the effort. Respectfully… be polite. I’m not interested in seeing your beans & frank as an introduction. I am also not interested in casual hookups. TIA :) I’m a complete nerd. I love to read & animals are my weakness. I love a good cuddle & a Spicey book. Not the greatest at describing me… I was introduced to this lifestyle about 8 years ago & haven’t looked back since, although I haven’t really ever had a true Dom/Master yet. Im very interested in having a mentor more than anything so if you’re reading this & have experience please shoot me a message. Below are my bdsm test results so there isn’t any confusion. I’m also happy to answer any questions you may have ☺️ == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Submissive 100% Rope bunny 87% Slave 80% Masochist 74% Experimentalist 62% Primal (Prey) 58% Brat 52% Degradee 37% Exhibitionist 22% Vanilla 22% Boy/Girl 22% Non-monogamist 18% Pet 7% Voyeur 0% Ageplayer 0% Switch

i am a 36 year old stay at home mom with three boys Taurus/star wars baby/derby baby I am a brat looking for someone who can help my husband train me. I've been a closet brat for a decade and I'm ready to be who I am. I'm not looking for random hookups. I'm not looking for a relationship. just friends. now if I was to find a cute plaything to share with my hubby then yes that might happen. but I'm possessive over him. so only someone I can trust and shit. 420 friendly non drinker I'm a nerd I love playing world of Warcraft and I love Harry Potter. I love DND but have never played. I keep a set of DND dice on me at all times lol

Hey there,! I'm totally new to this app and ready to explore all the things it has to offer. I might not have a clear idea of what I'm looking for, but I'm open to learning as I go. I absolutely adore being spoiled, snuggled, and cuddled…. I’d love if you took the lead & let me follow. …. idk my kinks or my limits ..

Submissive slave looking for a dominant I’m 23 looking for a dom who can handle my bratty side My kinks are: Bondage, Spanking Choking Hair pulling Degradation Controlling me Nipple play Orgasm control and denial NO MEN OVER 33 PLEASE IF I DONT ANSWER YOUR MESSAGE YOUR NOT WHAT IM LOOKING FOR SO DONT BLOW UP MY MESSAGES